F. A. Q.

How long have you been Coaching?

I have been coaching about 5 years for fun, but I just started coaching professionally. I limit my appointments per week and month according to my personal commitments, hobbies and life. That way when I make the time to meet, I really focus on my clients!

How did you become an Coach? Please explain why you enjoy your work.

I actually wanted to write a book about the swinging lifestyle, escorts, massage parlors, topless clubs and spas. I have been in the alternative lifestyle for many years. After visiting several swing clubs, private swing parties and topless clubs, i realized that everyone wanted to talk to me. I would have single men, married women and even couples come up to me and want to talk to me. I would have men tell me how much fun i am to be around, just to hang out with and have a nice conversation, even though I was not "playing that night".

Then the owner of a swing club asked me if I coach single men. I had never thought about it, but i said sure, why? He suggested I start coaching individuals who are interested in the "lifestyle". He suggested I start coaching women who are considering the bisexual lifestyle.

I started marketing myself a bit, and once word got out (and reviews) about the great service I provide, my business just grew and grew! I enjoy being an coach because I love the alternative lifestyle and pleasing men, women and couples. It gives me pleasure to provide my unique service which is very different than any other in the world. I meet between 1 and 3 clients per week and spoil them rotten! No clock watching, a nice discrete room arranged just for them, refreshments, snacks, loads of fun of ALL kinds, and I also give a wonderful stress relief session. No volume or revolving doors which I consider unsafe. Just 2 people having a relaxing afternoon! You'll never be rushed because I try to only see one client each day. I'm fresh and eager to play, and so is the room. I guess to get back to the question about why I enjoy my work I'd have to say because I am in control of my coaching business. Unlike some coaches who are pressured to make a living doing this, the "gifts" I receive supplement my income. By operating this way I am not under any type of pressure to see a certain number of clients each week and rush them along. I enjoy being in the "moment" with a client, and just having the two of us leave our busy worlds behind for a couple of hours. We both benefit in many ways.

Are you a "Full Service" Coach?

I am a full service coach providing services to my clients. I offer more than a girlfriend experience. Although this term is overused, I work hard to live up to your expectations because of the way I conduct business. Quality, not quantity .I am a coach, a friend, a mentor, a guide, and a teacher. I have been called a "surrogate wife", so i like to think of our time together as a "honeymoon experience". While most appointments with a coach are 1 hour, mine run a full 2 hours or more. I do this because I don't believe I could truly provide a GFE or HME in a short hours time. I'm also available for shopping and other special arrangements.( check my rate page)

How was your first paying client different from your free coaching in the past?

As I discussed in the first question, I became an professional coach after visiting several clubs to do research for my book that I am writing. I knew I could provide a much better service and also that I would enjoy spoiling my clients which also brings me much pleasure. I actually took my first two new clients out to lunch before we met for our session. They were anxious for us to meet up in my studio after getting comfortable with me. We're still great friends and although we've all had new and different experiences, they always come back for my very special coaching sessions!

Are there any special circumstances necessary for you to accept a new client?

It is important to me that a man treats me like a lady. Once we break the ice I become the ultimate goddess in our sessions. All I ask is that he be clean, discrete, and not be into any painful activities. I do like to chat on the phone before meeting anyone new. I always pick up my own phone when I can, but often I am not at home, I might be shopping or at a nail salon, which is a great advantage of being an independent coach. You can always reach me by e mail. I only give out my phone number once you e mail me. Generally speaking, this is where the term YMMV (your mileage may vary) comes in. If I am made to feel safe and appreciated, I will go out of my way to provide a wildly pleasing time. If I am frightened then it is hard for me to relax and not worry about my safety. It makes me feel most comfortable when a new client assists me in providing the information requested on the new client intake form. Believe me, I don't like being nosey, I just want to know how I can help you as your coach. Also, keep in mind I do not give out referrals, so your privacy is not compromised in any way.

How do you determine what the events of a coaching session will include and at what pace it will proceed? Are you affectionate with your clients?

I am very warm and affectionate. Being that I offer a more than a GFE, I enjoy my upscale studio, I have a warm and comfortable large studio with a sofa and a TV, big picture window to resemble a living room. That way the meeting can progress at a normal pace similar to what might happen on a date or coaching session. No rushing is allowed! Normally I offer my clients a choice of beverage. I enjoy dressing sexy, and I really get hot seducing a man or women. Since I allow for a full two hours or more of coaching, I often like to talk, visit and get to know the client, then offer to show the client how to use the Tantra techniques in my workbook that is provided. If the client needs to reduce his stress level, I can show the client several methods including a combination of French and Russian coaching methods, so that we can move forward with the coaching session. I allow for as many stress reductions a client needs in his or her session. Tantra is all about "multiple orgasms". I enjoy all types of coaching including showing a client how to please, use toys and role playing. During recovery time, I offer a wonderful structural alignment, an organic skin cleaning and even something new, raindrop therapy. I use natural lotion, powder and oils. I know just how and when to wake up my clients for the second half of the coaching session. I consider myself an expert in the French coaching styles as well Russian coaching techniques and I'm pretty darn good at traveling around the world in fact!

Sometimes Clients request multiple coaches simultaneously or the session may include more than one person designated as the "Client". Do you provide this service?

I am not into bachelor party scenes, although I once had an interesting meeting with a regular client who brought a business associate with him and had me coach his friend while he went to the local mall for a while. I found that to be very hot and exciting. I haven't any issues being with other women either since I am openly bi sexual. I often shy away from that because I find it hard to find a coach with a similar mindset who will set business aside and just have a blast. I don't want to be in a situation where I have to worry about being with someone who is strict about time. I can provide these coaching sessions, but find my clients leave much more relaxed and pleasured when they are with me one on one. Ask any guy who has done the 2 coach thing and most will tell you it's overrated! In order to help with your request, I have several coaching friends that I am sure will be more than willing to offer their services as well. Note that it would be best if you have met with me several times first so you know what level of service to expect in advance.

What are your feelings about Clients who wish to be affectionate and would like to kiss?

I adore kissing (as long as the client takes care of his or her teeth!). I also like to hug and cuddle.

If a client requests it, will you play specific roles? If so, what are these?

Yes, I have done role playing such as the Dom and Sub thing. I also have done some medical play. I prefer to just be the Sensual goddess, but can adapt to various situations on a "light" level. Please discuss this with me BEFORE scheduling a session. I am not into the BDSM lifestyle and do not like pain or humiliation. I am really good at talking you through a session of fantasy.

How do you handle a situation where a Client may want to get “wild and crazy?”

Hey, if he gets me hot enough, I may get "wild and crazy too!" As long as it's safe, sane and not painful I am up for "wild and crazy!"

What do you think it is that makes you different from other coaches?

The fact that this is also a hobby for me too. I'm not jaded because I have many other interests, including my own commitments, career and many other hobbies. Because I see a limited number of appointments each week, and also take frequent vacations and time off (like a week off every couple of months) I'm always extremely eager to coach. If you read my reviews , you'll see that this consistently holds true. Please note that there are many fine coaches in the world, and each of us offers our own unique style so you have to do your homework and find the one who is right for you.

What are your rates?

My In call Rates are $700.00 2 hours and for 3 hours $1,000. I offer packages for longer coaching sessions. See my rate page. I will not see a new client for more than a 4 hour the first time. Therefore what I am saying, is until I know someone fairly well I will not discuss my other packages. Please note that I prefer that the coaching fee be prepaid using an on line payment system. I only schedule new clients with "secured appointments". This means you have prepaid for your session. If you cancel at the last minute, you do not get a refund, but you can reschedule if you notify me more than 24 hours in advance. If I need to cancel I will either reschedule or refund your payment. You can always mail me a money order, but this takes a long time and I can't schedule until I receive payment. This eliminates the awkwardness of dealing with this after our great time. I just feel odd handling an envelope after we share a great time together. I'd rather like, we depart in a more natural fashion!

Is it unusual to ask for prepayment for a secured appointment?

Like I mentioned from the start, my coaching services are not like anything you have ever experienced. I am not a prostitute, I am a sex, love and intimacy coach. I am reputable and offer a In Call studio. There is no safer payment option than using my new on line payment processor. I will ask you to sign a receipt and coaching agreement when you arrive so you will have a record for your charge. This only applies to NEW clients, repeat clients can make other payment arrangements. I even offer a packaged coaching session plan.

Are there additional fees for "extras?" If so, what are these? What are their rates?

There are no extras! If you have a great time and wish to tip, that is kind of you but my rates are all inclusive. Never any up selling or surprises to ruin your experience

What forms of payment do you accept?

My new on line payment processor is best option for using a credit card. You can mail me a money order. I am looking into western union, but at this time, these are the only options. Also, I am really not interested in bartering services because like you, I value my privacy so this is not an available option. For repeat clients, I do accept gift cards from Home Depot, Lowe's, Wal-Mart and other national chains. Please ask me about using a Gift Card. I understand that these options might at first sound tedious, but with some of my regular clients this might be a creative option to allow them to see me more often or see me more creatively.

If you accept credit or debit cards, how will charges appear on a Client's statement?

If you use a credit card, all that shows is JSW Coaching. For money orders, please make payable to JSW Coaching.

Where are you based?

North Atlanta, just off Hwy 400. When you make your secured appointment, I will give you more detailed instructions. I am near a large mall, north of 285.

Do you travel? If so, what does that involve on the Clients’ part?

I do not travel at this time. I have made special exceptions for select clients, including visits to swing clubs, nudist resorts and even on a cruise. Please wait to discuss any travel plans until we get to know each other much better. For Men who are Bi Curious, I have special club packages, please ask.

If you have been reviewed, on what Internet sites or other locations can Clients read your reviews?

At this time, I have decided not to be reviewed on the major sites like TER. I offer a coaching experience which is very different from what is reviewed. I have included my own review page. These reviews came directly from e mails from clients. I might be listed on TER in the near future and I will be sure to post that if the time comes.

Describe what a Client can expect when first meeting you.

A client would feel as if we are old friends within a few minutes. I'm warm, friendly and always careful to make sure the client is comfortable in every way. I usually ask if everything is OK after chatting a bit and before coaching him or her, as this gives him or her the option to leave if he or she is uncomfortable. It hasn't happened yet though! By the time we get to that point some coaching and teaching has started and my client starts to relax and feel like he or she is in a safe spot, almost like in a dream world, then I know my coaching is working.

How do you prefer a client to make an appointment?

I prefer we initially make contact by e-mail so that I can answer his or her questions by e-mail. Sometimes clients will call when you are driving or in a situation where you would prefer not to answer certain types of questions. I welcome any regular client to call anytime but find that it's easiest to make that first contact by e-mail if possible. PLEASE don't ask me about specific "coaching acts or methods" as I cannot contract for particular "services." Can you imagine calling your family doctor and saying " if i come in will you prescribe a certain medicine for me?" He would laugh and explain that until he sees you, he can't agree to anything. If you read my reviews you have an idea of what a session with me is like.

What is your availability like? How soon from the first attempt to set an appointment can a Client expect to meet you?

Sometimes clients call at the last minute and although this might work for an established client, I prefer 24 hours notice for a new client so I can review the coaching new client intake form. I can often see a repeat client the same or next day. I am currently available morning, afternoons for new clients. Also evenings and weekends for repeat clients.

How do you handle “nervous first-timers?” What are you like with those who have limited experiences with an Coach?

I spend time talking with someone who I sense is nervous. I often tell them about myself personally, and then by finding a common interest (jobs, kids, pets, travel, a hobby, whatever) we connect. Once we connect that way for a few minutes it eases their mind and they realize I am just a nice lady who likes to have fun too!

Have you ever had experiences with disabled Clients? How do you meet their special needs?

Yes, in fact I enjoy working with clients who have disabilities. . I have seen one wheelchair client but have had clients who need a little more patience, TLC or help walking or putting their shoes on. I have also had a couple of clients who have had strokes. I take extra time coaching clients that need special attention. It is actually fun to see clients with perhaps additional needs because they appreciate the fact that I understand and don't feel nervous around them. I guess this gets back to the unrushed GFE thing. If you are seeing several clients a day you cannot offer a patient and relaxed time for someone who may require additional assistance or attention. If you happen to fall into this category, I would appreciate discussing your needs in advance. Please note that I have the right to refuse to see someone who I feel I cannot adequately accommodate for whatever reason. I must always be concerned with my safety and health in addition to their well being.

Without being too specific, please describe your current clientele. If you have regular sessions, how do you choose whom you wish to see on this basis?

Most of my clients are men that are 35+ and enjoy a mature woman. Most, but not all are what would be considered white collar workers although I enjoy people from all walks of life. Although I enjoy all kinds of people, I find that I best relate to a business owner or person in a manager type position because they usually demand the type of quality service I provide. Often a younger guy with less life experience may prefer the hit and run type of experience, a quickie session, like some of the 1/2 hour appointments offered by other coaches. Executives and hard working guys need pampering and that takes a little more time! I am more than open to working with young men, especially virgins, that is what sex, love and intimacy coaching is all about.

I keep absolutely no information, no e-mail addresses, no phone numbers. I will never contact you unless you specifically asked me to. You will never find yourself receiving any type of soliciting calls or e-mails from me. As stated previously, we will be meeting in my studio in North Atlanta, Georgia. It will be set up specifically for our use and I will not be seeing anyone right before or after our coaching session. This is a very different philosophy! I hope you contact me and we can begin to build a bond of trust so that you can also experience the delights of my services soon.

Love,
Julie