Julie's Diary
Each Month I Will Be Posting My Stories,
My Thoughts and My Dreams.
Please Feel Free To E Mail Me Yours.

 

November 2003

11/1/03

Welcome to my diary, my name is Julie Wild and I live in Atlanta Georgia. I plan to use this section of my web site to tell you about my personal life, my hopes, my dreams and my life as a swinger. I am married to a wonderful man who allows me to be me. He does not limit my sexual freedom. He understands that I am a very sexual person and being in the alternative lifestyle allows me to use my creative energy.

If you would like to e mail me and tell me about your thoughts, your dreams and your sexual experiences, please send me an e mail today.

Please remember I will not reveal last names, phone numbers, e mail addresses or other private information. If you request, I will even withhold your first name. I offer phone and in person sex, love and intimacy coaching. I never reveal anything that is said between myself and my clients unless you specifically ask me to. I have some clients that often ask me to post about our time together, just change a the name to protect their identity.

Looking forward to keeping in touch.

Julie


11/8/03

I can't believe the amount of e mail i have received this week. I want to thank the many escorts that have traded links with me. My site has only been up for a few weeks, so I contacted several well known escorts and asked to trade links, this has really been wonderful.

As many of you know, I love meeting new clients and sharing quality time together. I also enjoy going to alternative lifestyle parties and clubs. Well, tonight I am going to my favorite club, Trapeze. Just wait till next weeks update. I am sure it will be wild.

This week has been quiet, I spent most of the week building my web site and talking to clients on the phone. I enjoy my phone sessions. They are relaxing and it allows me to get to know my clients. This is not just phone sex, this is so much more. I call it my cyber escort service.

I am going to be writing a weekly column for alternative newspapers and magazines, called Ask A Swinger.

Until next week, play safe.

Julie


11/15/03

What a week! It started last saturday night when my husband took me to Trapeze in Atlanta.

If you have not been to Trapeze before, you need to consider visiting. It is one of the cleanest, nicest swing clubs in America. Although I loved visiting Velvet Heaven in Atlanta, they closed earlier this year. There are other clubs in the area, but none of them hold a candle to Trapeze. I hope I don't get in trouble for saying that, because that is there slogan, but it is true.

Well we arrived around 10 pm, dinner was still being served, but we had enjoyed dinner at my favorite Mexican restaurant. I love mexican food, especially when i can enjoy a few margaritas or Sea Breezes.

We could not believe how many familiar faces we saw. It was like going to Cheer's. ( Reminds me of the TV show) We sat down and visited with some old friends, had a drink to start off the party. ( Trapeze is a bottle club) Then I got up and started to dance, soon I was dancing with two other ladies that I did not know but I have seen before at VH and Trapeze.

As the evening progressed, I noticed several couples heading to the back room where the fun takes place. At Trapeze, you undress and put your belongings in a locker, then enter the back room with nothing more than a towel.

It might sound strange, but when you go through the door and everyone is naked, it would seem strange if you were dressed.

So we asked that our bottle be moved to the back bar since we planned to stay for a while. They have hot tubs, group rooms, individual rooms as well as a large common area.

I visited with many of my friends, talked to new couples about the lifestyle and then took a stroll around to look at the different rooms. I must say, most couples at Trapeze love the voyeur aspect more than anything else.

As time passed, I found myself really clicking with this couple, I will call them Bob and Jane, we agreed to try the group room, it was so busy, it was hard to find room to join in the fun. The best part is, you don't have to undress, all you have to do is drop your towel. I like to use my towel to lay on the beds as extra comfort and cleanliness.

Soon there I was, going down on Jane, what a wonderful pussy she has. I could taste her sweet juices. Within seconds, I felt her husband licking my pussy, it was so erotic. Jane lifted up her head and asked to change positions. This was living, Jane licking my pussy, Bob's cock in my mouth, and Jane's hands massaging my breasts.

This went on for almost an hour, taking turns licking and sucking. Jane asked what happened to my husband, I told her he is not far away, just then I looked over at another bed and there was my husband with this young couple. They were talking and playing. I could tell they were newbies. He is really good with new couples, showing them how the club works and the proper etiquette of visiting a swing club. Just then I looked over and saw this young blond take my husbands cock in her mouth. It is an amazing thing to see your husband pleasured by another women.

These thoughts immediately go through your mind, is he enjoying it as much as he does with me? No matter how long you have been in the lifestyle, these thoughts always go through your mind. Jealousy is not part of swinging, but you can not stop thoughts from going through your head.

I was really horny and wanted my husband to join us, so i motioned for him to come over, what i did not realize is he was going to bring this other couple over. Soon we had three couples mixing and matching. It was wonderful. When this young blond went down on me, I screamed in pleasure, she was excellent at what she did. I kissed her lips like there was no tomorrow. She was so sensual and beautiful.

It was approaching 3 am and we were still going strong. I watched as my husband entered this young blond, you could see his enjoyment from his facial expressions. He rode her like a young stud, then she asked him to let her feel his cock in her mouth, so he pulled out and she slipped his cock in her young mouth. It was awesome seeing my husband riding this girls mouth with his cock.

Just then, he let off his load. It was was erotic seeing this beautiful blond with my husbands cock in her mouth and cum dripping down her chin. When he pulled out, i crawled over and licked the remaining cum off her lips. She got so hot from that, she pulled me down and started DFK me. It was awesome, the taste of my husband's cum on her tongue. She is the most erotic young girl I have ever been with.

The evening was winding down and we all dressed and went back to the front dining room to have one more drink before parting. It was a beautiful evening and as I like to say " a good time was had by all."

Until next week, keep in touch, I love the e mails.


11/22/03

With less than one week to go until Thanksgiving, I have been receiving e mails from men who seem to be confused about life. They feel they are good husbands but their wives seem to have their priorities in the wrong place. As a coach I call this Life Balance.

Actually, it is sad how many e mails I receive from guys who start out with, I am happily married but my wife has no time or energy for sex. I have coined the phrase, " Tired Wife Syndrome."

I work with men who feel left out or have a need for intimacy. My suggestion is always the same, if you are suffering in your relationship, but your wife is a good mom, a good friend and a good person, try to talk to her about this problem, try everything, but then, hire a professional, don't go out and have an affair.

I am often asked, is it not hypocritical that you are a sex coach, swinger and provider, yet you tell people not to have an affair. Well here is the difference. My husband knows what I do and he supports and encourages me. We believe what I do is making a difference in the lives of my clients. I am making this world a better place to live, work and play. I am not taking away from the world, I am adding to it.

So lets all keep in mind, the best relationships are based on honesty and independence, not control.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.


11/29/03

I hope everyone had a safe Thanksgiving. My Thanksgiving was wonderful, my husband took us on a short vacation. It allowed me time to think about my profession, the advice I give out each week in my column. My clients and how much they tell me that I make their life so much better.

Well tonight we are going to a swing party. These are private parties held at a local Atlanta area hotel. The organizers are wonderful people. They have a big party, like a meet and greet. Food, drinks and dancing. Then there is a hospitality suite, everyone goes back to the suite and relaxes, if you are so lucky that you find a couple you both would like to spend time with, then you venture off to your room. The best part is most couples leave the door open for all those voyeur couples to come in and watch.

This group is the best and if any of you are interested in finding out more about this group, drop me an e mail. I will be happy to give you more information.


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