5/1/04

This week has been full of phone sex coaching. When I coach a client, I listen and offer my input, but most of all, I enjoy our time together. I love when a client calls and tells me he is stressed, tired and frustrated, then as we talk I can hear him relax as our sessions progresses. Soon I have my clothes off and I am exploring my body as I talk. Soon my client is feeling his cock and thinking about spending time with me. As I start to reach a state of arousal, I hear my clients breathing slowing and I know my coaching is working.

Within minutes, I am cuming, I am telling my "cyber lover" how much I want him to put his cock in my wet pussy, soon I am exploding with a loud moan. I love when my "cyber lover" explodes and shoots his cum all over. It is so wonderful when my "cyber lover" moans and then his breathing slows down.

I have had phone sessions with clients from California to Florida. I have had sessions married men, single men and even couples. If you would like to find out more about my phone sex coaching, please click here. All of my phone coaching clients tell me the difference between my phone sex coaching and all other phone sex services is I am real and when you are ready, I am available for in person coaching. Most of the phone sex services only offer phone sex and you never meet the ladies, you never know if they are really into sex or just a phone actress, I am not a phone actress, I am a swinger and love sex.


5/8/04

I am a lucky girl. I started writing a sex advice column called "Ask A Swinger." I started writing for Wildside Magazine here in Atlanta. I have since been contacted by several alternative newspapers across america asking to carry my column. So starting next month my column will be nationwide.

I am also working on a new project. I am going to be testing a radio show concept, based on the Ask A Swinger column. I will fill you in more later. I will be at several local swing parties and clubs interviewing members about their experiences in the lifestyle. So if you are into the lifestyle and would like to be part of the show, please e mail me. I will not use real names, only your personal stories, experiences and adventures.


5/15/04

What a way to start my week. On monday morning I woke up to a e mail from a client. He is a wonderful man who loves my coaching. He is very spontaneous and wanted to know if I was available for a in person session. I usually don't take same day appointments, but for this client, I was ready, willing and able to see him with just a few hours notice.

It was a wonderful afternoon, we spent quality time together and I left with a smile on my face. I was thinking back to the first time I ever met this client, one thing that really struck me was his openness to my screening process. He made me feel safe and secure and I hope I have repaid the favor.

If you are interested in a "in person session" with me, please understand that a complete screening process is required. I can not be relaxed and open unless I know that my new clients do not have a hidden agenda. Click here to find out more on my "in person sessions."


5/22/04

Am I still dreaming? I started my week with interest from a national magazine concerning my columns and then I finished off my week seeing my most regular client. Yes, he wins the award, ( I have other awards I would like to give him). I am a very lucky girl, on wednesday he e mailed and asked if I could meet him on thursday. It was wonderful. Seeing a repeat client is so much fun, you can be relaxed, and you know exactly what turns your man on.

I have been thinking, I want to try expanding my sex, love and intimacy coaching. I want to take it to another level. I am looking for a client who would like to have an " entertainment marriage." I would like to find a client that wants to spend time with me each week, say one day each week, in a relationship that takes coaching to a new level, where we could spend time shopping, eating out, really get to know each other. I want to stop and smell the roses with someone.

Here is what I envision, for a set fee, meeting my " recreational husband" one day a week, maybe some shopping, lunch on a sidewalk cafe and then back to his place or my place for some afternoon fun. Then each night, I will call my "recreational husband" or he can call me for some great phone sex coaching. What do you think? Does this sound like something you might be interested in? If so, please e mail me. I promise I won't have the "Tired Wife Syndrome."


5/29/04

Ok, life does not get better than this. I only saw one client this week, but that is all I needed. He is an amazing man. I don't kiss and tell, but lets just say, he is an incredible person. If you have ever seen TER, you know hobbyist write in and rate the ladies. I often have suggested that we providers start a site that allows the providers to rate the clients. Lets just say, if I was rating this client, he would have a 10 for kindness, caring and generosity. He would also have a 10 for intimacy skills.

He often teases me about becoming addicted to his "Julie Experiences", well I have become addicted to my experiences with this client.

He arrived with red roses in hand, what more could a girl ask for, well let me tell you, he came prepared with another present for me and I graciously accepted it, but we can't discuss that here.

If you are wondering why a happily married 39 year old lady is a sex coach, let me tell you, because of men like this. I enjoy my job, but I feel fulfilled when I get a e mail from a client telling me how much they enjoyed our time together or when they say, you light up my life. That is important to me.

I am thankful to have found such wonderful and caring clients. As my ATF says, "client" is such a clinical term, so I am experimenting with " recreational boyfriend"or "surrogate boyfriend" maybe even " time share husband." What do you think? If you have a suggestion, please e mail me.

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