3/6/04

I had a great time meeting a new client this week. He is so awesome. I normally don't write about my clients in this diary, but he was really special. Kind, considerate and overly caring. As you might have noticed on my site, I require screening for in person appointments. I do not require screening on phone sessions. This client went the extra mile making me feel safe and assiting in the screening process. He knows who he is, but for the record, I will go the extra mile for any client who makes me feel safe and secure.

I had a three hour session and it was marvelous. I often read stories on local discussion boards like TER and Big Doggie. I read the reviews for fun and to see how clients view thier sessions with providers. I then pay attention to some of the details that the hobbyiest comment on. For example, I read where so many hobbyist comment on the fact that the provider did not help them fulfill a fantasy.

I now tell my clients, "I am not a mind reader, I am a coach" so if there is anything you want me to do or talk about, please just tell me.

If you would like to schedule an in person session, please understand that screening is required, if you can't trust me with where you work, then I am not the provider for you.

3/13/04

What a week, several phone sessions that were really erotic. I had a phone session with a client who lives in the northwest. He has wanted to fulfill a fantasy, he always had a crush on his teacher in middle school and I helped him go back to his younger years and fulfill that fantasy. There is nothing like the feeling that you are having sex with your teacher.

I have a crazy story to tell about my grocery shopping experience. I went into Kroger to purchase some food items. I noticed this young guy staring at me. He could not have been more than 25. He was so cute, but so young. I made sure and smiled when he looked at me.

I felt like the dean of the college's wife in the old movie animal house. I wanted to find out why he had this attraction to me, so I made sure to move closer to him. When I got up near his cart, I reached over his cart for a can of coffee. He smiled, backed up his cart and asked if he could help me. I thanked him and then introduced myself as Julie. He said, " do I know you?" I thought this was a come on line, but he then said, "are you married?" I said "yes, does that matter?"

He then shocked me when he asked, " is your name Julie Wild?" I was shocked," I said yes." He then went on to explain that he took his former girlfriend to a web girl party a few months ago and I was there. My girlfreinds introduced me at that party as Julie Wild, the XXX Dear Abby. So the rest of the night, I had guys coming up to me to ask questions.

Just then it started to come back to me, he brought his girlfreind up to meet me. He was very polite and wanted his girlfriend to hear about the alternative lifestyle. If my memory is correct, she wanted no part of it. We spoke for a few more minutes and then he said, "Julie, can I take you to a swing club one night?" I explained to him that I often go with my husband to swing clubs, but I do offer a swing club special if he was interested. He promised to e mail me to find out more. If you are interested in going to a swing club with me, please send me an e mail.

I came home and told my husband that I hope he e mails me, that would be a great evening. If he e mails me, I will keep you posted.

3/20/04

I have so much to tell about this week. I took a vacation this week. I needed a few days off, so my husband took me on a little vacation. We met up with some old friends. They have been married for many years and are also into the lifestyle. We had such great time playing, visiting and resting.

She looks like my twin sister, so many friends think we are sisters. Even our hair looks like we are twins. My husband loves to play with her, he says it is like doing my sister. I love to play with her as well, it is awesome, she gets so wet, she floods when I go down on her. Her husband is a special guy, I say he is a bad boy, a real womenizer. He will steal your heart away. He is great in bed, expecailly in bed.

We went out to a gay bar complete with a funny drag show. My husband and our friends made the mistake of trying to be funny with the drag queens, they know how to really give it to people in the audience, especially ones that think they are being funny.

My husband has the hots for one of the drag queens, but that is another story.

3/28/04

What a week. I recieved so many e mails from readers of Wildside Magazine and my web site. I am glad so many people want to share thier stories with me. I am often asked "who is Julie Wild?"

The answer is simple, I am a fun loving lady who found out how great sex feels when I was young, lived a fun, healthy and sexually rewarding life. I am a wife, mother and caring freind. We became involved in the alternative lifestyle when we were married and have enjoyed meeting and playing with many individuals over the years. After undergoing training to be a coach, I started "Ask A Swinger" to assist people who were interested in the alternative lifestyle but had no one to ask. This turned into my site, JoinJulie and now I hope to start my site Join My Site this summer.

If you have a story to share, please e mail it to me.

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