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1/3/04 Welcome to 2004. Yes New Years Eve was awesome. I went to a party as planned. Unfortunately due to unexpected travel plans, my husband was not with me, so I went solo. I tried to behave as much I as I could, so I took my girlfriend with me. In hindsight, maybe that was not such a good idea, she is crazier than I am. We started out by getting our room and hanging up our evening dresses. We went down to the bar, had a drink and watched the crowds. It was mostly couples, but there was some single men there as well. We started the evening dancing together, slowly feeling each others body and DFK. The married men were definitely watching us. As the evenings approached, the crowds became intoxicated and the sound level in the room became much louder. Several couples joined in when we were dancing, the couples seemed to be having a really good time. It was getting late, the couples were starting to leave to go back to their rooms, when my girlfriend took me back to the corner of the room and started to strip for me. We were all having fun, so I did not see the harm, soon she was almost naked and I started to kiss her from head to toe. Soon I had her spread eagle on a table going down on her like the night was about to end. She was so load, her moans could be heard around the room. I was not sure if I should stop or keep going, so I kept going when she started to tremble. She let out a ear piercing scream, I was not sure if she was having an intense orgasm or something was wrong. I have never heard her scream like that. Well it was a once in a lifetime orgasm. She calmed down, and got dressed and we decided it was time to head back to our room. When she stood up, the crowd stopped, the music stopped and they all started clapping, we were so embarrassed, but hey, just a couple of girls wanting to have a little fun. We were still on fire, so this cute young waiter was watching us, he was young. So my girlfriend asked him if he wanted to come back to our room to celebrate the new year, this was 4 am. He agreed and off we went. I am not sure if he was off work or this was on the clock. We went to our room and the two of us gave this young waiter an memory he will never forget. When he went to leave, he told us that he had only dreamed of being with an older women, he sure was glad his dream came true. So were we! Until next week, play safe. 1/10/04 What a week I had. Have I ever told you that I love showing off for men? Well it happened this week. What a thrill. I was at a large department store. I was in the dressing room trying on a few new spring outfits. I had on a matching bra and panty from Victoria Secret. This store only has curtains. So the curtain was slightly open on the ends, but that was OK since I was in the women's department. Just then I looked up and noticed this really nice looking gentleman looking my way. It was obvious he was trying to look into my dressing room. I then noticed his wife was getting ready to try on clothes in another dressing room down the hall. You should have seen his eyes when I undid my bra like I was going to try on a bra. Instead I started to pinch on the ends of my nipples. When I get aroused, my nipples become long and hard. He was watching me very close. Just then I could hear his wife call him to come to her dressing room to see her. He was back in a flash. I had already started to get dressed to leave. I could tell in his eyes that he wanted to see more. So I started to get undressed again. This time I even took my panties off. When He noticed my shaved pussy, he almost fainted. I started to rub my pussy while pinching my nipples. I felt that I had teased enough, so I put up my finger and motioned him into my dressing room. He reminded me of Chevy Chase in the movie "Vacation." He moved closer and soon was in the dressing room with me. I placed my nipple in his mouth and knew he could not refuse, since I had some milk to share with him. I then felt his finger going deeper and deeper into my wet pussy. It felt wonderful and he just sucked on my breast like a baby. Just then, I started to unzip his pants. His cock was so hard, it came out like a rod. I slowly bent over and put my lips on his cock. I slid my lips all the way down his shaft, he was panting. I think we both forget about his wife, just then, we heard her call out his name. I wanted to swallow his load so bad, but he got so nervous, he ran out to see what his wife wanted with his pants unzipped. I knew it would not be long till she noticed. As I dressed I could hear her hollering at him. When I was purchasing my outfits, he walked up and said we will meet again. I slipped him my business card and hope he calls. It was so much fun, I could not wait 1/17/04 I recently started a monthly e mail newsletter. If you have not signed up, please sign up today. I will be e mailing a monthly newsletter, but I will also pick one member each month for my contest " Win a date with Julie." I have really been busy with new clients. I now have a studio in North Atlanta. If you are considering scheduling a In Person session with me, please e mail me. I suggest 2 hour sessions for new client, this allows us to get to know each other as well as time to experience the new techniques we discuss. I want to tell you about one client I recently met with. He gave me permission to post this. He is a married professional, 2 kids, wonderful wife but their sex life is almost non existent. He contacted me, assisted me in the screening process and we scheduled an appointment. He was very nervous, he had never met a provider, let alone a sex coach. On the way to my studio he was having second thoughts. He called me to say he was not sure this is the right thing to do. I spoke with him and explained to him that this is normal for both the client and the coach. Two people meeting for the first time, preparing to discuss the most sensitive issues in ones life, their sexual issues. Two people who will work together to create intimacy, two people who will share life's little secrets. He agreed to continue to my studio. He arrived and was starting to feel a little more comfortable. We sat down on the sofa and talked, we discussed life's issues. We talked about his dreams, his goals, his relationships, his past sexual relationships, his current sexual relationship. He quickly became very relaxed and allowed our session to move into my studio where I showed him several unique relaxation techniques. He left very happy and ready to work on improving his current relationship. So if you are nervous about working with a Sex Coach, think again. 1/24/04 I have been busy working on my web site as well as returning e mails. I have met so many wonderful providers. The ladies in this business are so great. Each night I have enjoyed talking to clients all over the country. If you have ever thought about getting to know me better, consider purchasing a phone session. Just drop me an e mail for more information. I went to lunch this week with a friend of mine. She is a happily married women who seems to have a satisfying sex life. I have not told her that I am a Sex Coach, but I think she knows. She kept asking me why I seem so happy lately. I told her that I help people explore what makes up their life. She would make a great coach, I keep thinking how much fun it would be to work with her when my clients ask for two coaches. Have you ever heard of the sybian? This is a mechanical device that simulates penetration. It has controls for different sensations. It is like riding a mechanical bull. It looks like it is built on top of a saddle. I went to a party on friday night. They had a sybian and none of the ladies would demonstrate it. I agreed, so I quickly took off my clothes and put a condom on the shaft, no oil necessary, since I was so turned on. I climbed on, then I asked Vicki to run the controls. It is a much better sensation if someone else runs the controls, that way you do not know what to expect. If you control the ride, you automatically slow it down when you orgasm, and you never push the limits. When someone else runs the sybian, they push the limits and when you orgasm, they keep up the sensations so you have multiply orgasms, almost like a continual orgasm. It is a neat little machine, but I still prefer the real thing. 1/31/04 Well all good things must come to an end. January is all but over. Tonight we are going to a local swing party. Not sure how this will compare to last weeks riding of the sybian. That was a really long ride. I was having such a good time, the ladies were sucking on my breast, I was out of control. When I got off, my pussy was still vibrating. I was so horny, for the real thing. I had a great time this week. I was able to spend some time with my friend. He is very young, but a great lover. We went to a party this week and they allow you to bring single guys with you. So I asked my husband if he minds if I bring my friend with us. He is such a great guy, he not only said OK, but took us out for drinks and dinner ahead of time. We started out at my favorite mexican restaurant, while we were having drinks, I started to massage his pants, he was so hard. I kept running my hands under his shirt, feeling his nipples and his hairless chest. I have a saying that makes my husband laugh, I always say, "he is so young, he even smells young." As I was eating my food, I could not keep my hands off of him. He is so beautiful. As we walked out of the restaurant and toward the car, I could not help but wrap my hands around this young man. He was so hard, I was afraid he would cum in his pants. We arrived at the party and I was a very happy women, all the other couples were having a good time, but I brought my boy toy with me. It turned out to be a great evening. My husband spent some time talking to some couples at the bar, so I took my friend and we slipped into a bedroom. All I can say is, if my husband had not knocked on the door, we might still be there. We were having such a good time, I forgot that these rooms were not soundproof. I think everyone heard each time I orgasmed. If you want to read more about my experiences with my friend, please watch for my new e book, Julie Wild, 21 years of erotica, which should be available on line this summer. |
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