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12/6/03 Thank you for reading my diary. I started my site in November and found I really like sharing my stories with my readers. I never really understood the pleasure my husband receives when he "shares his wife" with others, but now that I am sharing a little slice of my life with my readers, I feel that same pleasure. One thing I found is as a sex coach, columnist and provider, I share my life with my clients, I don't give up anything or use up a non renewable resource. I compare this to a rock star, they perform on stage and share the beauty of their music, but when they walk away, they might be tired, but they are whole. When I hear a provider say, they have nothing left, or they are burned out, I realize they are not cut out for this profession, they are not sharing their life, they are using up their life, especially their self esteem. I am proud of my profession and think I do a good job with my clients. This is a real business, but not a job. Does that make sense? Anyway, I have been invited to a gang bang, not as a participant, but as a guest. They invite couples and single women to come watch and add to the excitement. You will be surprised, some of the men are more turned on watching mature women or couples than looking at the young lady who is being banged. I personally have not ever hosted a gang bang and don't plan to, I guess I have been to so many of them that they are not sexy or sensual, they are actually crude. On video they look erotic, but in real life, they are not erotic at all. I have received many e mails from readers asking about how I got into the lifestyle and if my husband pushed or suggested I try it. Well I will give you a glimpse into how it all started, but I will save the details for my new e book I am writing called, Julie Wild, 21 years of erotica. This book tells my life story starting when I was 18. Basically I met my husband when I was young, we had a great life together but porn was something we enjoyed together starting from the time I was in high school. When we married, ( that is a whole story in itself) we decided to pursue experimenting more with what life has to offer. We talked about swinging, we talked about threesomes, we talked about how hard it is to find another couple or single guy to join us. Can you imagine asking a neighbor or coworker to join in on the fun only to find out he or she is not into this same vision. That can make for some embarrassing moments. Shortly after we were married, my husband had a friend, they both loved sex, his wife was beautiful, we were very similar looking. We talked about it and I was in agreement if the chance arose. One thing about swinging is to always have the ground rules understood before you enter into this type of fun. One day my husbands friend was over sitting at the table and they were talking, I heard the topic " how do you find a couple that is into swapping?" So I decided to take the lead, I walked in and said, " let me get this right, you want me to do your wife and then switch partners?" The two of them about lost their load. My husband's friend said, "yes, that will work." Two weeks later, we went to dinner and returned to our home for a evening we will never forget. It was that night that I realized you can separate love and sex. I had the most incredible orgasms that night. I never wanted that night to end. You will have to read my e book when it is on the site to understand my thoughts going into that evening. It turned out to be the start of our alternative lifestyle. We partied with this couple for the next 8 years. We shared many fun evenings. Well tonight we are going to a party, so I will give you an update next week. If anyone wants to share your stories with me, I would love to hear them. I will post them without your last name or e mail address. Looking forward to New Years Eve. 12/13/03 Last Saturday night was a night I won't forget. We were invited to a swingers party in Atlanta. It was a small get together but all couples. It was specifically designed for professional couples. Most of the couples were in their 30s and 40s, and I must say, all beautiful. It was held at a club in Buckhead, the upscale Atlanta neighborhood known for its bars and nightclubs. It was a lot of fun, but it was 7 miles from the hotel, so I think some of the energy was lost between the club and the hotel, maybe everyone was getting tired, it was almost 3 am when we arrived back at the hotel. We went to our room, got comfortable and then joined the party in progress in the hospitality suite. Several of the girls were web girls and you know how crazy they can be. We had a good time, but I fell for this beautiful young lady, she stole my heart. She was so awesome. She had blond hair, great nipples ( I am a nipple girl) and the tastiest shaved pussy I have ever tasted. We had sex for hours, the music on the stereo was intoxicating, we looked into each others eyes and locked lips, that is all I remember, we fell asleep in each others arms. My husband is so wonderful, he made himself a place on the sofa and let me spend the night with this incredible women. You will hear more about her, she is so sexy, I can't wait to meet her for a day of shopping and play. 12/20/03 Today I am going to do something different, I am going to answer my mail bag. I get hundreds of e mails each week, I try to personally answer each one the best I can. Here is a few e mails from this weeks mail bag. I have edited them down to a sentence or two, I think that will make for better reading. Dear Julie, Dear Scott, Dear Julie, Dear Robert, By the way, watching sports on TV is harmless and safe, just like renting an adult video, you choose your level of participation. The more participation, the higher the risk, just like watching NASCAR on TV vs. driving the car yourself. Dear Julie, Dear Sam, Dear Julie, Dear Eric and Lisa, If you have a question for me, please feel free to send
me an e mail. 12/27/03 I hope everyone had a wonderful and happy Christmas. I am looking forward to New Years Eve. I have been invited to a special party. It is a going to be really sexy. I can't believe this is the last post for the year. Where has the year went. I have been phone coaching for some time, but I just started seeing clients in person a few months ago. My site has only been up and running for about 2 months, but I sure have enjoyed my time. The amount of e mails I receive is unbelievable. Look for my first post of the New Year, I will recap 2003 and tell you about how I spent New Years Eve. Have a safe and fun New Years.
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