All You Need To Know About Escorts
Reviews, Discussion Boards & Blogs
My name is Julie Wild and I am a Sex Coach in Atlanta Georgia. I started
the Ask A Swinger column to help answer questions from men, women and
couples on adult topics ranging from swinging to erotic foreplay. I receive
e mails each week from readers asking for help.
In today's fast paced world, it is difficult to keep a relationship exciting
while maintaining the day to day life. The two most requested topics
are swinging and escorts. This weeks column is filled with information
on hiring an escort. If you have a specific question, please feel free
to e mail me at Julie@JulieWild.com .
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Dear Julie,
My wife and I recently wrote to you concerning a threesome. Since we
were not comfortable attending a swing club, you suggested we hire
an escort. We were very lucky, we chose a lady in our area after reading
her web site.
Since we enjoyed that encounter, my wife and I have decided to try
our luck again on a local escort. Do you have any suggestions on choosing
an escort. I searched a national escort web site for our area and found
over 216 listings.
Jim & Sue
Dear Jim & Sue,
I am glad my advice worked out so well. I often suggest to couples
who are having a hard time meeting couples in the lifestyle or chose
not to attend a swing club to consider hiring an escort. Not all escorts
cater to couples, but the ones that do, usually are experienced and
can provide a wonderful memory.
There are several methods I suggest when choosing an escort. First,
visit some of the local escort sites. Read them thoroughly. If your
budget allows, consider a traveling Porn Star Provider, these ladies
are very professional and their fees are usually much more than a local
provider.
You can always go to one of the national escort review sites, like
TER ( The Erotic Review) or Bigdoggie. These sites offer reviews of
the providers by city and state. I personally recommend looking very
closely at the reviews as well as the reviewers. From personal experience,
I have often found these reviews to be inaccurate as well as biased.
If you find a new provider with a few reviews, but the reviewers are
all also new, be careful. Many new providers ask clients to review
them to help them build their business. I would like to see some reviews
from experienced hobbyist.
I suggest a better method, both of these sites have discussion boards,
read the boards, watch what is being said about different providers.
This is usually more accurate than the reviews themselves. Remember
the term YMMV, which means, your experience might be different than
the reviewer.
Of course there are those of us in the profession that do not chose
to be reviewed. Many say we like to fly under the radar screen. For
different reasons, some providers do not allow reviews of their services.
Do not allow this to influence your decision. I know many excellent,
long term providers that have never been reviewed.
One of my best suggestions is to e mail or call the provider you are
thinking about hiring. If she responds quickly and pleasantly, then
I would consider hiring her. If she is too busy to respond to your
request, I think I would keep searching. Please do not discuss details
with a provider over the phone or in an e mail. Most providers will
immediately hang up or delete your e mail.
I hope this helps and please let me know if the second time is as good
as the first.
Dear Coach Julie,
I was cheated by an escort and I don't know what to do. I called a
local service, I requested a girl in the ad. I set up the date for
9 pm at my hotel. I gave the service all my personal information and
they assured me the girl I was going to see was the girl in the picture.
I called back at 9:30 to say she never arrived. They assured me she
was on the way. I called back at 10 pm to ask what happened. They said
she was running late but would be at my hotel in less than 10 minutes.
I fell asleep waiting for my date. At 11:45 I heard a knock at the
door. It was my date. Two hours late and the girl at my door looked
nothing like the picture.
I let her in and gave her the $300 donation. She walked out and handed
the money to her driver. Then she started to make small talk and I
started to undress her. She stopped me and stated that the $300 was
just for showing up. If I wanted anything more, it would cost from
$200 to $400 more.
I was really mad, I felt I was tricked. So I told her I was calling
the agency. She informed me that anything more was illegal and walked
out. What can I do, I am out $300 and feel cheated.
Traveling Man
Dear Traveling Man,
Next time, do your homework. Most independent providers and agencies
do not play those games. Unfortunately there are a few who pray on
the innocent. There are many rip-offs like cash and dash, upsell and
fake pictures.
Most escort sites like TER and Bigdoggie have sections devoted to warnings
about these types of activities. The only problem is once their tricks
are discovered, they just change names and phone numbers.
The cash and dash is most often played by groups, you are told to meet
a person at a door to an apartment building or gated community. You
hand the donation over to that person, then you are told to go to apartment
number - - - and of course no one is there. You instantly realize you
have just been dooped. Then who are you going to call? So most hobbyist
post these types of activates on these national boards.
The upsell has been around forever. You see an ad for a beautiful lady
for $200 - $300 an hour. You call and arrange a date. The lady shows
up only to spoil your evening by asking for more money, explaining
that the "fee" goes directly to the agency. This always spoils
an evening. My suggestion is to either find an independent provider
or stay with a well respected agency. Most well known agencies do not
all providers to play these games.
Always ask providers how current the pictures are and if they are real.
Some sites even offer "verified photos" to be sure the person
in the picture is the same person who is advertising, but even then,
some providers might appear thinner or heavier in the pictures. Remember,
it is about the experience, not just the physical body.
Dear Julie,
What is all the talk about Escort Blogs?
Dwayne,
Dear Dwayne,
I am so glad you asked. Blogs have been around for a few years, they
are a web log, which can easily be updated daily. A few providers have
these blogs, usually through a service. Now a new site offers escorts
blogs and allows surfers to comment on the providers post. I usually
don't recommend a web site, but this one is truly unique and easy to
navigate. I started my own blog with www.EscortBlogs.net . Please visit
the different escorts personal blogs and tell them Julie sent you.
The service is new and growing each day.
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